Getting married is one of the ways humans legitimize the relationship of feelings and live as closely as a partner. Humans in general will get married when they already feel enough with themselves, and need other people who are trusted and loved to equip themselves. Married, as a human completeness mark. If only humans are not married, is it incomplete? In my opinion, not really. Getting married is the way of an adventure that has been chosen by the universe and validated by the view of the prospective bride.
Getting married is not the solution to all problems, but by getting married you will train yourself to be able to manage the lives of two humans after being able to manage your own life, for the sake of your child’s future life. Getting married is also not something that should be a race. Getting married is also not a trend answer. Simple or luxurious, closed or open, the wedding procession is something that is very sacred so that things outside yourself and your family are no longer a consideration.
Marry a person with whom you will not run out of conversation until the morning comes, starting from discussing black holes in the sky to laughing at Pororo’s character in a funny way. Marry a person with whom you can be your whole, honest and fair. Marry a person with whom you feel full, finish, and complete. So the long journey from an adventure only requires time and life to separate it.
Prepare yourself, the journey is still long. Heat your vehicle to that point. Make sure your feelings are always full when you see someone you agree to accompany your trip. Fill all your needs and soul with him/her. Arm yourself and your partner with all the knowledge that can enliven your journey later. Familiarize yourself with quality ethics and ways of life for the future generations. Make yourself the best version that you might not even have imagined before. So enjoy it all like a very high rollercoaster ride, but with an extraordinary natural landscape.
Congratulations (choose) to get married!
Hopefully it will be complete every day.
Puti Cinintya Arie Safitri 